Truth be told, when 2013 hit - I kind of freaked out. I instantly thought of how many challenges there would be ahead of us this year [moving into house or apartment/money/our first weddings in photography]. I needed a few days to really think about 2013 and what it is going to hold for us and myself personally. Than I realized that there was nothing bad but all good and new experiences coming our way. Everything we have been preparing ourselves for in all aspects is coming to us in 2013.
Now I'm excited. And I can't wait to get things started! I kept thinking of all these goals and tasks I wanted to get done this year - and how I really want this year to be the best! I want to look back at this year with nothing but the happiest memories and thoughts thinking "wow! I did all that!" Here are some of my "resolutions" if you will :)
This year I was so happy to be able to rebuild my old broken friendships and start a lot of new ones. Now, it's time to make them stronger. I've always had a ton of girlfriends and all different in their own way and over the past few years, it seems I've had less and less. And I'm sick of that. Though Jose is now my absolute best friend [aww], I want my girlfriends back! Sure we always get coupled off and enjoy nights with our couples - but I want to be able to hang with just the girls too! And not just that but build the new friendships I've made with my new peers [aka, photographers!]
As positive as I try to be, and seriously I am really positive - I let a lot of things get to me more than I should. I look at every little thing people do and say and just take things way too personally. It's time to stop that. In all ways. Stop thinking people are out to get me. Stop being around negative people. I have realized who are the people that want to see me be successful and the people that don't. And I can't be around that anymore. It just brings so much unnecessary stress into my life. Not only that - but I just care way too much when I shouldn't! Buh bye!
Not that I'm a bad wife! I'm a really good wife... but I know I can be better. Probably the person that sees the MOST of any negativity I have is my husband. And a lot of the time it's to him! And I should NOT do that. Instead of pointing out his faults and what he doesn't do, it's time to praise him for what he does do. And it's time to cook for him! This year we will FINALLY be getting our own space together [alone! just us and our furbabies] and it's time to OWN that kitchen and make sure when my husband comes home, there is food there waiting for him :) So that goes under my "learn to cook" resolution too! :)
This is something Jose and I both agree on. We want to find our quality of life, the way we live and do it comfortably. How we "make things work." We want to be healthier and be happier. What I like to add to it is something I feel SO Strongly about and that is ENJOYING life. I don't want to spend my days just working, making money, paying bills and buying "things". That doesn't make me happy. Its the experiences that TRULY make me happy. THATS why I like to throw parties! THATS why I like to travel! And go to sports events and concerts, and see shows on Broadway! Sure it costs money but in the end you forget about the money and only remember the experience! In fact we had this discussion last month & Jose completely agreed and then we booked our trip to Disney! So we can go and enjoy ourselves!
I have lots of other goals but am not gonna sit here all day listing them. I'm just glad to get these out there into the "void" and look back next January of what I wanted out of this year - and I better have accomplished it all! I'm so excited for this year now!! It will be AMAZING!! :)
all images by me :)